Flying into Vietnam late last night was a surreal and profound moment. Looking out of the plane window at the twinkling lights of Ho Chi Minh brought both Christel and I to tears. I guess partly due to the idea that this long journey to Honour is coming to an end. Kind of like that dam burst of emotion you see when an athlete who has trained all of his life for that one big race crosses the finish line.
It’s ironic, because the in-flight movie I was watching right before the descent was Run Fat Boy Run. There is a scene at the end where the lead character Dennis is crawling toward the finish line after limping through a 26 mile marathon with a sprained ankle. Lying on the ground, delirious with exhaustion and pain, he is about to give up. He looks up at the finish line and catches a glimpse of the reason he was running…his wife and son. He’s infused with one last burst of strength, gets up and runs like a mad man across the finish line into the arms of home. Pain and exhaustion take a back seat to love.
As we were landing last night, we experienced that dam burst of crossing a finish line. But it was more than that. We couldn’t help but think as we looked out at those twinkling lights, that somewhere out there, beyond the city lights, a little girl we call Honour is soundly sleeping in her bed. Having no idea how many things are going to change so quickly. Having no idea how her world is going to suddenly become very unfamiliar for a time. Having no idea how much she has been loved from a distance. Having no idea how close she is to a forever home, to family, to dreams coming true.
Funny thing about finish lines is that in a strange way, they are actually new beginnings. As Green Day sings in the song Closing Time; “Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end.” We are now approaching another beginning…another starting line if you would. Tomorrow, our Tribe of seven becomes a Tribe of eight.
-Rob
Sunday, October 12, 2008
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Looking forward to seeing you with Honour in the morning!!! Glad you made it safely.
Mark, Carol, Hannah & soon to be Josiah
Praise God
Your word picture is amazing...and so right! You guys are all finishing up one chapter & ready to start another!
We're praying that your first meeting with Honour is beyond imagination...that her heart is ready to have a forever mom & dad.
Sheri--Holt BB
So glad you are there safely. It is late at night there now Sunday and you are preparing yourselves for a life changing day. We are praying for a joyous and peaceful transition into a tribe of 8 for you all.
I am reading your words with tears in my eyes knowing how true they really are. We are looking forward to following your journey and although you are a family that has been "with honour" for such a long time, we are overjoyed you are sharing the special moment when you will be "with Honour" forever! Blessings to you and your soon-to-be Tribe of Eight!
Rebecca, Anthony,
and Anthony Le
Holt BB
Hello friends, we will look for you "on" tomorrow, our morning and your night. The kids are doing great, still adjusting but doing fine. They both made some cash on the farm yesterday. We pray every night for all of you. Tomorrow we celebrate Thanksgiving here, very timely don't ya think? Love to you.
Lisa e.
Beautifully expressed, Rob. I love the line, "Pain and exhaustion take a back seat to love."
Tears filled my eyes reading your beautiful post; it's as if I'm touching down in HCMC all over again. My big release moment was coming through the gate to the orphanage. I lost it right there.
I can't wait to see you cross that finish line and start your new journey as a family of 8 :)
Wow.....why is it every time I read one of your posts I end up with tears in my eyes....! thinking of you ALL from afar....love, the mcCavey's
Rob...I am so, so excited for you, your family, Honour. I spoke with Desirea today and she pointed me to your blog. Can't wait to meet her! I can hardly believe how much your children have grown!! I miss all of you and hope to visit New Haven soon.
sending much love from New York,
Caroline Hahm
Hi Michaela!
I can't wait to see you and Honour!See you in a week.
from,
Eric and Julia(WWCA)
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